Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but really, what makes a face beautiful? It’s easy to notice someone across the bar, or on a dating app, and immediately know that you want to get to know that person better, but have you ever considered why you are attracted to a certain person? Why are certain people even considered beautiful and what did they do to become more attractive? Is it all just a matter of preference or is there more to it?
What Makes a Face Beautiful
something innate about an attractive person that makes you want to get to know
them and spend time with them. Even as an infant, we are drawn to attractive
people. But why exactly is that? And does attractiveness differ based on our
ethnicity and the culture we were raised in?
All of these questions are ones that scientists have been studying for years. From remote villages to face shape and the preference of infants, there is a lot of research that looks into why someone is considered beautiful.
The Visual Science of Beauty
We live in a very
visual world where we process hundreds of thousands of images each minute. Our
brains are constantly categorizing. Constantly working. Constantly processing
everything. It is easier for our brain to process things that are familiar.
This is why you’re more likely to remember something out of the norm – like the
rat carrying off a slice of pizza in the New York Subway. Something out of the
norm stops and catches your attention. So, when you are scanning the bar or
your app for a potential mate, you look for someone that is easy for your brain
to process. Someone who is considered attractive.
Scientists have found that many of what people consider attractive is average. This doesn’t mean average in looks, this means average in size of features. An attractive person has an average sized nose – it’s not the largest nose or the smallest nose. It is a nose that is the most common size. It’s a nose that your brain doesn’t have to linger on – your brain sees the nose, processes it quickly and approves. Average faces may be seen as more attractive because they are the most familiar. We are drawn to familiar.
The Symmetry and Facial Structure of Beauty
Our brains also
enjoy processing things that are symmetrical. Even if you look at flowers, they
tend to be fairly symmetrical but not perfectly symmetrical. Our brains read
faces and things with similar sides as symmetrical. The symmetry of the world
is not something you probably think of often – especially in people – but we
all know that one person who does not have a symmetrical face. You know you’re
thinking about them right now. There is something on their face that is not
symmetrical. And because of this feature, this person is likely not someone you
would classify as very attractive. That doesn’t mean they don’t have other
great qualities, but on first glance, beauty is not the quality you would first
attribute to them.
Additional studies get deep into the distance between features on a woman, and how handsome or beautiful someone is based on whether their face shape is considered more masculine or feminine.
Back to Familiarliy
But the majority
of studies on beauty look into how our brains process information. It goes back
to what is familiar to us. This is also probably why many Caucasian people
marry other Caucasians. Same with other ethnicities. When scientists when to a
remote village in Africa and studied what was considered beautiful there, they
found similar themes – people are attracted to the familiar. American babies
(of any ethnicity) also prefer people of their own ethnicity.
Because people gravitate towards the familiar, aka attractive people, it’s no wonder an attractive person is more likely to get a job and make friends easier than others. When people are shown photos of different people and asked to give attributes based only on the photo, the attractive people are more likely to be given the attributes of popular, smart, friendly, helpful, and kind. We do this every day whether we know it or not. We do it when we scan the bar and decide if we are going to approach the attractive person across the bar. We do it when we take a second to decide if we are going to swipe left or right on someone.
First Impressions and Beauty
While we may be
able to form a first impression on someone in as quick as 100 milliseconds,
that impression can change as we get to know someone. This is why you may be
friends with someone of the opposite sex first and then grow to find them
attractive as you get to know them. Or why some dating apps match on interests
and qualities instead of just appearance. It’s when you learn more about
someone that you sometimes realize you want to spend more time with them. This
is something you hear a lot about in arranged marriages – they didn’t initially
find the person attractive but they grew to love them and in turn found them
There is also potentially a link between beauty and health. Attractiveness was thought to be a health cue. People are attracted to beauty because a beautiful person is less likely to be susceptible to illness, and more likely to be able to bear children. In turn, other studies have completely disproved this. But maybe part of it is survival of the fittest.
No matter how you look at it, many of the studies do boil down to what is familiar. Brains process attractive faces faster than they process unattractive faces. This makes it easier to quickly swipe left or right, or quickly make the decision to talk to someone you see across the bar. First impressions are hard to ignore and sometimes it does take a drink with someone to know if the first impression is worth a second look.